The True Meaning Of Tantra Worship

For any male student of tantra, the study and understanding of women is indispensible course material. No tantra teacher would proceed in his tantric instructions if he perceives that his student has not yet grasped the tender nuances of the female gender. If such a gap is perceived, it must first be filled – because a man who does not understand women will only objectify them.

The first thing you need to understand about women is the fact that, unlike men, their primary focus is on emotional bonding. This is a mechanism provided to them by nature which allows them to separate the predators from the protectors. A man who seeks only sexual gratification does not serve the woman’s highest natural purpose – that of continuing the human race. Such a man will leave the woman with child but not provide or protect what he has spawned.

As opposed to the predator, the protector operates from an innate bond with his mate. He will not seek only sexual gratification but also provide for her and the offspring he spawns. This bond is what human love is basically all about, and it is this bond that every woman on this planet is programmed to seek and respond to. Those who want to learn tantra merely to better cater to their base animal desires have missed the point altogether.

Ancient tantra reveres the woman’s constant quest for genuine love and cherishing. The tantric arts recognize this quest with the desire of any celestial being to be loved and respected at the celestial level, and not be dragged down by the sordid shallowness of earthly misconceptions about true relationships.

Tantra love is the highest form of human love, because it takes both love and sexual desire and lifts them into a spiritual plane. It introduces the element of worship into the man-woman relationship. Tantra worship is nothing but the highest spiritual expression of the most noble human emotion – that of love.

A man who does not possess within himself the ability to worship his woman as a tantra goddess is either ignorant or hamstrung by his ego. Ignorance can be cured with knowledge, but the ego needs to be broken down and exposed for what it is. No tantra teacher relishes the sight of a man’s traditionally massive ego coming down in ruins, but he will exercise his skills to make it happen if so required.

A man (or for that matter a woman) who approaches ancient tantra from the standpoint of self-absorption, self-centredness and selfishness can never create a spiritual connection with their partner. And without this spiritual connection, tantra love is unattainable – a mirage in the desert.

When you approach a tantra teacher with the desire to be instructed in the ancient tantric arts, do so with an open mind. Do so with a willingness to unlearn everything you have ever learned about what it means to love. Do so in the preparedness of forgetting everything you ever assumed to be true about love, sex and intimacy.

You are about to leave the temporal behind and be guided into the spiritual. In the presence of a tantra master, there is no room for your old prejudices and misconceptions – all these will be swept away in an awakening into the true meaning of love.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

The Tantra Secret Of Male Multiple Orgasms

Male multiple orgasms are an elusive treasure that most men spend their entire lives chasing without ever attaining it. In fact, there is absolutely no reason why multiple orgasms in men should be shrouded in such mystery. Tantra holds the key to this much sought-after concept – and no, it is not a secret jealously guarded by some fundamentalist tantra teacher. In fact, the boundary between any man and his ability to have multiple climaxes is simply one of misconception and lack of training.

The simple fact is that men are born multiple-orgasmic. Most boys have in fact experienced multiple orgasms many times before they reach their teens. The reason why they are able to experience this is because they have not yet achieved the ability to ejaculate. The first explorations of their sexuality begin without any bias towards the need to produce a spoonful of fluid. In that sense, their experiences are closer to the truth than that of most adult males.

I was myself astounded when I, many years ago, first learned this simple fact from my tantra master. Today, it is one of the first truths I pass on to my male students. Ejaculation does NOT equal orgasm (as many men know first-hand). Not does orgasm necessarily equal ejaculation. Ejaculation is merely a reflex action of the genitals which comes after a certain sequence of feeling-spurred actions. Because of age-old conditioning, this purely muscular reflex is seen as the zenith and epitome of male sexual pleasure.

However, the fact is that a man can experience multiple orgasms simply by understanding the concept fully, and abandoning certain stubborn preconceptions. Since ejaculation and orgasm is not the same thing, it is possible for a man to experience a series of climaxes without ejaculating. It is a matter of training and mind control – not of sexual prowess. And there is certainly nothing mystical about it.

Yes, it is true – by studying tantra under an experienced tantra teacher, it is possible for any man to become multi-orgasmic. When this happens, the celestial dance of love between man and woman can truly begin. Woman is multiple-orgasmic for the simple reason that her climax is not correlated with an ejaculatory reflex. When her man also sheds this limitation and discovers his true sexual potential, he truly becomes her equal – and her divine consort. He is then able to worship his tantra goddess from a level ground.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Harnessing Sexual Energy For Whole Body Orgasms

Among the many tantra lessons you will learn from your tantra teacher, the dynamics of sexual energy is perhaps the most important. In the understanding of this secret lies the key to other sexual Holy Grails, such as the male multiple orgasm and the whole body orgasm.

The mysteries of sexual energy generation and flow are a matter of deep study under an expert tantra master. However, it is sufficient for the new tantra student to understand certain basic truths of the subject.

Fundamentally, sexual energy is nothing but another form of ‘chi’, or spiritual energy. The nature of chi is to gather wherever one tends to focus one’s attention. This means that when you focus on sex, this energy will get directed to your sex organs. This is a natural process which creates an increase in blood circulation and nerve activity in that area.

The warm, tingling sensation you feel in over your entire body during sexual arousal is nothing but this sexual energy being directed towards your genitals. Along the way, it harnesses the bundled energy in the other parts of your body, focusing it all on the pleasurable task at hand.

This simple fact alone gives an entirely new dimension to the concept of sexual arousal. Sexual arousal (in both men and women) is nothing but the body and mind cooperating to create sexual energy.

The unfortunate part of it is that the untutored and unaware person tends to allow all energy to focus on the sexual organs alone. This limits the orgasmic experience to the genitals. This being the norm, it is impossible for most human beings to experience the legendary ‘whole body orgasm.’

As you progress in your tantra lessons with your tantric teacher, you will learn how let this sexual energy permeate not only your genitals but your entire body. This involves redirecting a lot of the sexual energy from your genitals back into the rest of your body. As you master this art, you will begin to experience multiple and whole-body orgasms – not as one-off instances, but at will.

When a male student of tantra masters the ability to circulate sexual energy throughout his body, he will have a bottomless reservoir of sexual energy at his beck and call. He gains complete access to the sexual energy reserves of his body and can tap into them at any time. He is also able to transmit this energy to his female partner.

Remember that the whole body orgasm is not a matter of better sexual performance, but of getting the whole body involved in the orgasm. This becomes possible under the instructions of an experienced tantra master.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.