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The Bonding Ritual Of Tantra Yoni Massage

It is impossible to discuss tantra sex or sacred sexuality without also touching upon some of the key tantric rituals. The tantra yoni massage is a very intimate process and one of the fundamental tantra goddess worship techniques. This technique must be learned in intricate detail from an accomplished tantra teacher, as using the wrong moves can cause pain and injury.

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Once the male has mastered the techniques involved in tantra yoni massage, he is able to offer to his beloved one of the most fulfilling erotic experiences that his woman can ever have. Using this technique in the right manner and in the right spirit can prove to be a major breakthrough in a couple’s intimate relationship and bring the partners closer together than ever before.

To properly understand why ancient tantra gives such great importance to these rituals, one needs to understand that the woman’s vagina is, in fact, considered a sacred thing. Translated from Sanskrit, the word ‘yoni’ literally means ‘sacred space / place of worship’.

The yoni is what defines the tantra goddess as a deity worthy of adoration, as it is the very wellspring of human creation. Referring to one’s woman’s most intimate parts with this term brings a whole new dimension of respect to the relationship.

One of the primary reasons why this ritual is so powerful and effective is that it is a selfless service or act of worship offered by the man to the woman. There is no element of desire for personal gratification for the man – his objective is purely to offer pleasure and joy to his woman. This is a concept which is largely alien to most people, who feel that there must be an equal measure of give and take in any intimate encounter.

Though the process of learning to administer a tantric yoni massage begins with specific instructions from the tantra teacher, it is also important that those who practice it do so in the right spirit. One of the vital aspects of this very powerful tantric ritual is that orgasm is not an objective. Though climax may happen, the most important thing is that the woman experiences a deep sense of wellbeing and of being cherished.

Learning to administer this loving service to his woman is an important step away from the objectification which taints most man-woman relationships. The woman is no longer simply a vessel for the man’s lust – she becomes the tantric goddess that Nature has meant her to be. Though further sexual activity may follow, this should be solely the woman’s prerogative and not something she has to give in exchange for ‘services rendered.’

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with deep knowledge of traditional Indian sciences. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons from this young Tantra Master.

Tantra Yoni Puja – Worship Of The Sacred Feminine

Ancient tantra is inextricably entwined with the concept of the original tantra goddess Shakti. To be more precise, Shakti is the symbolic representation of the tantra perception of the sacred feminine. This is how an authentic tantra teacher views all women, and this is how any student of tantra must view them too. Your tanta master must teach you that there is no difference between worshiping the tantra goddess Shakti and worshiping your woman. Only then will you enter the true spirit of this ancient art of love and life.

Just as Shakti is symbolic of the tantra goddess in every woman, the yoni (vagina) is symbolic of woman herself. In many ways, it is the source and font of her divine feminineness and power. Ancient tantra considers it appropriate – and in fact mandatory – to worship the yoni as a sacred object. It is from the yoni that all life emanates, and it must be regarded and treated with that in mind.

This is where the concept of tantra yoni puja comes in. An appropriate form of yoni puja is the yoni massage. It is an act of love and obeisance to the tantra goddess in your woman. Remember, such worship does not have to be by a male alone. Tantra accepts and encompasses same-sex relationships, so a tantra yoni puja can and should be performed by a woman for her woman lover, as well. In fact, this is an extremely sacred act since it amounts to tantra goddesses venerating each other. Only a woman can truly understand another, and it is common knowledge that women share a delicate, indefinable bond that transcends male comprehension. Certainly, such a bond cannot be replicated in the world of males.

Interestingly, this woman—to-woman variant often comes across as strange to a tantra novice. Many initiates into this sacred art automatically assume that tantra is essentially a man-woman model. However, it should be remembered that though the lingam (penis) is certainly instrumental in procreation, it is the woman that nourishes life. Therefore, tantra holds woman-woman sexual relationships at least as divine as those between men and women. It is unfortunate that lesbianism has been given such a despicable status by the porn industry. It illustrates the fact that we have forgotten that woman-woman sexual relations were considered normal in ancient times, and for all the right reasons. Today, they have been reduced to a means for titillating men’s sexual fantasies.

Regarding woman as the impersonification of the sacred feminine is intrinsic and fundamental to tantra practice. A good tantra teacher will drive this truth home again and again during his tantra instructions, until it becomes second nature to his pupils. Without this mindset, it becomes impossible to grasp the deeper spiritual concepts that operate in ancient tantra. It in no way diminishes the status of the male, for no divine entity is complete without the ones that worship it. The man retains his importance in the cycle of life. However, he must abandon any pre-existing notions of inherent male superiority and concepts of women as the ‘weaker sex’.

Man – your woman is a tantra goddess. She is Shakti. Even if she is not able to produce children, her yoni is still symbolic of the sacred feminine. Tantra yoni puja or worship is how you display your acceptance of that fact. Woman – never regard yourself as less than a goddess of tantra, for this is your true nature. Your yoni is the nexus of your feminine power. Never allow it to be abused or objectified; guard its divinity as you would any sacred idol.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.


Ancient Tantra: Practice Of Yoni Tantra Massage

Ancient tantra teaches us that yoni massage is an excellent way of building trust between partners – a very vital factor in any relationship.  The yoni tantra massage is also used to assist women who need to break through sexual blocks or trauma by creating a powerful bond of safety.  Women who have had less-than-pleasant sexual experiences, and whose yoni was ‘used’ but not loved, can release these old hurts completely through the process of this ancient tantra technique, awakening to a new, love-centred sexuality. It can also remove emotional memories that manifest in the body as illnesses, tumors, chronic fatigue, depression and menstrual disorders.

The woman, catered to as a tantra goddess, should fully receive the gift without the expectation that she give back in any way. At all times during this tantra technique, the woman must be in the moment with sensual touch, without any goals to achieve. The central point of this spiritual, yet erotic massage is neither the technique or sequence, but the fact that it is a path leading to supreme conscious awareness of the yoni.

The practitioner must not proceed without expert guidance from an accomplished tantra teacher, for the yoni is in a very vulnerable state after a yoni massage. The practitioner must also remember that the practice of tantra yoni massage requires total concentration and a considerable stretch of dedicated time (two to three hours at the minimum).  It must necessarily be administered as part of a tantra ritual, since it intends to transform the divine space into a temple of love. Both partners must purify themselves with a bath or an extensive shower beforehand.

Your tantra master will caution you that this tantra technique can yield completely different effects each time.  Whatever the effects may be after each session, both partners treat each other with a lot of care.  After completion, the woman may be much more open and vulnerable, and a word said unmindfully can hurt much more than it would otherwise.

The yoni tantra massage consists of a unique combination of twirls, stokes and techniques, including ‘Shaktipat paddati’ and energizing subliminal points, stroking the soul and ‘Sahasraram Shuddhi paddati’. When used for healing, a yoni massage involves strokes designed for connecting the heart, mind and yoni in a deep state of meditation-induced relaxation. It must remain non-intrusive and empowering, both for the giver and receiver.

Finally, it is imperative to keep in mind that tantra and yoni tantra massage have strong repercussions on the mind, body and soul, and must be practiced solely under the supervision of a tantra teacher.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide to read more about Ancient Tantra and Yoni Tantra massage, learn tantra exercises and tantric techniques from this young Tantra Master.

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