The True Nature of The Tantra Goddess

According to ancient tantra, there is a deep and inextricable connection between sex and spirituality. As such, human intimate relationships are therefore considered spiritual in nature. Where the necessary elements of this spiritual bond are missing, tantra gives us ways and means to introduce and nourish them. One such way is tantra goddess worship.

It is deplorable to see how the sacred concept of tantra goddess worship has been bastardized today. It seems to have become a pseudo-spiritual pseudonym for female-dominant prostitution. Many online portals advertise so-called ‘tantra goddess worship services’ wherein men who enjoy being dominated sexually by a woman can pay for the privilege. Nothing could be further from what true worship of the tantric goddess truly is.

In tantra, the woman is genuinely seen as a goddess in all respects. She is the wellspring of creation and procreation, and the tantra goddess ‘puja’ (or worship) is both a series of rituals as well as an all-encompassing attitude on the part of the male. The male acknowledges that the sensual energies within the woman have been vested upon her by the Universe, and that it is from her that human life springs. The woman is therefore worshipped and her sacred sexual energy is given its rightful honour.

As the woman evolves in her male partner’s eyes from being a mere sexual object to the tantra goddess incarnate, a wonderful transformation takes place in their relationship. Mere intimacy becomes tantric love, and the cosmic dance between the tantric goddess and her worshipful consort commences. The male rises above his base physical desires and loses himself in his woman’s sacred incarnation. When sex does take place, it is nothing less than the celestial unification of the tantra god and tantra goddess. The relationship becomes holy in the eyes of the Universe, and is finally complete in all respects.

As the couple learn more about this wondrous new incarnation of their love from their tantra teacher, they become increasingly introspective and discover their innate spiritual potential. Love and intimacy become less self-seeking and more partner-focused. True communication begins, and the woman perceives – often for the first time in what may have been years of togetherness with the same man – that she is cherished and valued.

To learn about the transforming power of tantric goddess worship, it is essential that the partners seek the guidance of a gifted tantra master. Only in the context of expertly guided tantra for couples instructions can true sacred intimacy take place.

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Tantra For Women: Erotic Eye Contact

In learning tantra for women, it becomes evident pretty fast that there is considerable responsibility on the female to direct the flow of spiritual and physical intimacy with the male. It is the male’s tendency to rush into the sexual act, and the woman must ensure that spiritual bonding is not neglected. Here, the tantra goddess becomes not only the object of worship but also the director of the tantra ritual of worship.

One of the time-tested tantric techniques that women can use to establish a spiritual basis to a physical encounter is to bring about and maintain eye contact with her man. If this is done correctly, she can capture his undivided attention and ensure that it does not stray from the act of erotic worship. She must remember – even if he forgets – that a worshipful attitude is a must for tantric sex.

Establishing and maintaining eye contact is not as easy as it may seem, and the initial attempts must be supervised by an experienced tantra teacher. Initially, the male’s impulsiveness and focus on the physical act are bound to overwhelm all efforts of the woman to keep his eyes on hers. Mutual nervousness and embarrassment can also defeat sustained, loving eye contact. The constant reassurance and instructions of the tantra master will help both partners to concentrate on this very important tantric technique.

The tantra teacher may instruct both partners to sit cross-legged before each other, at a little less than arm’s distance. This closes off the genital areas from immediate attention and reach and encourages easy eye contact. The partners then hold each other’s’ gazes for at least a couple of minutes. When practiced often enough, this tantric bonding technique may eventually prolong into as much as ten minutes or more.

The eyes are indeed the windows to the soul, and properly instructed partners can literally get lost in each other’s’ eyes and the love that they reflect. Especially for the woman – who craves the attention and adoration of her male partner more than mere physical release – this is an extremely satisfying and enriching experience.

Once lovingly maintained eye contact has brought about the requisite attributes of worshipful adoration and spiritual connection, the hands are slowly brought into play. However, the worshipful mood must not be disrupted by sudden fumbling for each other’s private parts. Instead, the partners may proceed to languidly caress each other at arm’s length, maintaining the cross-legged pose and also eye contact. Another ten minutes of this should suffice to bring physical desire to a peak, after which the partners may abandon the cross-legged posture and stretch out next to each other for a full-fledged erotic encounter.

If this sounds fascinating to you but you feel the self-control required is beyond your capacity, do not despair. A qualified tantra teacher can definitely bring both you and your partner into a zone where such tantric sex encounters are perfectly possible.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Discover The Bliss Of The Tantra Orgasm

The tantra orgasm is an advanced form of the expanded orgasm. It is an intensely erotic and unforgettable experience; no matter how many times one has it. The tantra orgasm is not a one-dimensional concept, and in fact includes many smaller orgasmic ripples or explosions. If you have ever heard of the term ‘full-body’ orgasm, this is it – and a qualified tantra teacher can teach you how to own this experience.

The tantric orgasm can be brief and very intense, or subdued and prolonged over several hours. The latter variant can only be achieved after years of intensive tantra practice. However, the briefer, rippling kind is attainable after a couple of months of tantra instructions under an experienced tantra teacher.

A ‘full-body’ orgasm basically means a climax that involves far more areas than just the genitals. Of course, it is common knowledge that the orgasm begins and develops in the brain. Tantra capitalizes on this fact and teaches a student to spread the orgasmic experience over his or her entire body. The tantra orgasm is experienced in a series of rapid contractions that begin in the genital area but then radiate into the lower limbs from the abdomen. These contractions then progress to the inner parts of the thighs, percolate into the arms and hands and create a full circuit with the genitals.

What makes this vastly enhanced orgasm possible is the fact that it is generated by far more than mere physical friction. In fact, the tantra practitioner enters into an altered state of consciousness before the physical act. This state is catalysed by specific tantra meditation techniques. Once the tantra orgasm culminates, one experiences not only physical but also emotional release. The tantric orgasm is a deeply spiritual experience.

Those who have attempted to chronicle their experiences during a tantra orgasm narrate that they distinctly perceived their tantra energy breaching the limits of their bodies and connecting with the Divine Source. Many come away from the experience convinced that they have come face to face with the very essence of life, which is Limitless Joy. They are never quite the same again, and they can experience this Olympian orgasm any time they choose to after the first one.

It has been established that the tantric form of enhanced sexual climax has a firm scientific basis, since it seems to excite levels of the nervous system that usually remain uninvolved in routine sex. There are no gender limitations – both men and women can learn the secrets of the Ultimate Orgasm and transform their lives forever.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.