Ancient Tantra – The Key To Ultimate Relationship Depth

Tantra is the key to deep emotional bonding and spiritualized relationships between men and women. It preaches that in relationships, we must find a balance between playfulness and seriousness while never losing sight of an essential erotic undercurrent. Tantra expounds the uninhibited expression of our humanness, and deplores the tendency of human relationships to become mechanical and soulless.

In our lifetime, we undergo several evolutionary changes. Tantra teaches us to meet these changes with enhanced awareness and self-honoring at every stage. By applying the precepts and practices of ancient tantra, we can ensure that our deepest relationships are rich in understanding, love and harmony.

We must learn to differentiate authentic tantra from the vacuous, superficial offerings being marketed by supposed tantra workshops. No ‘tantra retreat’ can hope to inculcate the necessary depth of spiritual awareness that defines pure ancient tantra. Remember, genuine tantra practices guided by an accomplished tantra master actually paint the tapestry of your life in new and joyous ways. As any qualified tantra master can affirm, there will never be any shortcuts to such a divine goal.

In present times, many relationships blow hot and cold, lacking in the depth and abundance that Nature decrees they should have. These relationships become uncomfortable and barren for both partners. This is because the partners love for themselves and harmony with each other, rendering them incapable of feeling expressing joy in the relationship. Sadly, the sacred message of tantra either never reaches their ears, or is garbled and rendered impotent by inept interpretation

An authentic tantra teacher works with his pupils to bring the joyful “Ohs” and “Ahs” back into their relationships by addressing physical, emotional and spiritual lacunae. The ecstasy returns – it seeps back in at the emotional and spiritual levels, and then spills joyously over into the physical realm. This is how expertly guided tantra practices heal our relationships, and help them be all they can be in our existence here on earth.

The sacred scriptures of ancient tantra are explicit on how spiritual harmony makes any relationship truly complete. To quote from the ‘Yoni MahaNirvan’:

“Hold me close, profoundly and spiritually
So as much as His arms were around me,
I feel a sense of peace and complete acceptance
And…..desire to be like this forever!

Sexual attraction has ended;  spiritual attraction has begun, spiritual attraction has begun… spiritual attraction has begun”

Most women know deep down that they possess the seed of profound harmony within. Most men know that their male energy is capable of balancing this harmony to completeness – to the joyful fulfillment of both partners. Enabling this blissful state of harmony is the sacred promise of tantra. Let nothing keep you from drinking deep of this ancient font of wisdom, and from taking your relationships from barrenness to divine levels of delight and harmony…

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide to read more about Ancient Tantra & Tantra relationships from this young Tantra Master.

Why Angelina Jolie is the Occidental Tantra Goddess

Angelina Jolie – a tantra goddess? Yes. In the truest tradition of tantra, her name itself conjures up visions of unbridled energy, untamed and yet powerful. The mention of Angelina Jolie is synonymous with passion, and none can ignore it. Every man would want her, and every woman secretly wants to be like her.

Long before Angelina Jolie stormed the world with her highly acclaimed role in the American television film Gia (1998), her smouldering sexuality, devilishly beautiful eyes and sensuous bee-stung lips had become bywords of sensuality. She infuses the power of sexuality in everything that she does.

Yes. To an experienced Tantra teacher,  Angelina Jolie is indeed the quintessential tantra goddess. She is clearly the defining part of any relationship that she may be in. The world has a wild and unstable image of her, but it can never pigeon-hole her. She is at once wild, untamed, sexual, nurturing, compassionate, loving, uncompromising, home-bound, nomadic, dominatrix – all rolled into one.

These are aspects of the image that she shows to the world, but her tantra vibrations are hard to conceal. Such vibrations drive us to our destinies whether we know it or not; whether we acknowledge them or not. Here is a woman who is highly aware of her inner self, of the Goddess within her, but a ‘self’ that is not completely known to herself and certainly not to the world. The ‘real’ Angelina Jolie – the divine feminine behind the woman of the world – is one of those rare people who allow their inner divinity to come out.

All persons have myriad facets to their personalities, but few give expression to all. She does – and that is what makes her powerful, memorable and a celebration of feminine tantra energy. She is not a mere woman, but one totally unafraid to follow her mind and heart. She exudes class even as she blatantly tongues her lover, making the act shocking but not cheap. A Tantra teacher can see that sexuality is inherent in her, and not a put-on. She may wear it on her sleeve, but she does not take it too seriously. It is second nature to her, not something that she is self-conscious about.

For Angelina Jolie, being sexy is as natural as being a mother, and she proves it as she continues to expand her multi-cultural family. She has shattered the stereotype of the sexual female – she is sexy and yet beyond sexiness, diving passionately into humanitarian work and imbibing it in her life.

In Brad Pitt, Angelina found what was missing in all her previous relationships. Unlike the men she had previously dated, Brad is not a macho, overtly sexual presence in her life. He has a comparatively soft aura and understated sexual energy. For once, a tantra goddess finds an energy that complements hers completely.

Her driving need to have a large family that embraces various cultures stems from the void in her heart created by her estrangement with her father. The lack of a strong father figure in her life led to a dangerously close relationship with her brother. Since that relationship would never have been accepted by society, Angelina Jolie was always left hungering for more. She did all that she could to get Brad away from his previous wife, Jennifer Aniston, and even today will not allow him to keep any relation with her. Her need for a good father for her children drew her to Brad, who always wanted children (while Jennifer never did).

If Angelina Jolie is a woman who shows what can be possible with even a half-realization of one’s true self, then her life is also proof of the follies one can commit if that realization is not complete. Tantra condemns taboo relationships within the family, but a proper understanding and complete realization of ancient tantra leads to a highly fulfilling life that not only holds adventure, but an all-embracing goodness.

Angelina Jolie is surely moving in that direction, but needs a deeper understanding of herself. Nevertheless, the tantra goddess in her can never be denied. Tantra aims to make a goddess out of every woman, especially one who is highly aware of her inner self, of the Goddess within her…..

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide to read about Tantra Goddess, learn tantra exercises and tantric techniques from this young Tantra Master.

Tantra Massage: Much More Than a Sexual Technique

Ancient tantric scriptures refer to tantra massage as a method of bonding between two spiritually aware beings. A massage is a lot more than just a sexual technique meant to prolong pleasure. It is epitomized by Shiva and Shakti, the quintessential tantra God and Goddess.

Even for an accomplished master, tantra massage is hard to describe verbally, which has led to many of the misconceptions surrounding it. Those who do understand it have a deep comprehension of humanity, human nature and natural human motivations and desires.

A regular tantra massage can be useful in alleviating frustrations and uncertainties, and can lead to higher levels of self esteem. It is also a perfect way for men, women and couples to find higher knowledge of energy transmutation for the purpose of spiritual and emotional advancement. And finally, yes – it DOES release stress and enhance / prolong passion and pleasure.

Your master will tell you that tantra massage is a primary step in the quest for deeper sexual and spiritual meaning and realisation. It sparks off a true lust for life and freedom and teaches us how to separate super-orgasm from ejaculation. By the means of this tantra technique, one can experience the energy of super-orgasm throughout the body and mind.

Since sex and sexual activities are something that we can all relate to (after all, these represent very inherent energy) experiencing the pleasure and energy of super-orgasm would motivate us a lot more towards realizing ourselves. All of us need a modicum of tangible pleasure in our spiritual quest to keep us motivated.

When performed in the prescribed way, tantra massage is a beautiful celebration of all aspects of our humanity and represents the bliss of a heightened state of arousal. By its use, we can increase awareness of ourselves, our desires and our motivations.

Given its spiritual benefits and higher levels of consciousness, this tantra technique was essentially developed so that we can realize our inner wisdom and develop stronger, more fulfilling relationships. However, it must only be practiced under expert supervision by a tantra master – the fallout of amateurish practice can be quite negative, since the fullest potential cannot be achieved.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide to read more about Tantra Massage, learn tantra exercises and tantric techniques from this young Tantra Master.