The True Nature of The Tantra Goddess

According to ancient tantra, there is a deep and inextricable connection between sex and spirituality. As such, human intimate relationships are therefore considered spiritual in nature. Where the necessary elements of this spiritual bond are missing, tantra gives us ways and means to introduce and nourish them. One such way is tantra goddess worship.

It is deplorable to see how the sacred concept of tantra goddess worship has been bastardized today. It seems to have become a pseudo-spiritual pseudonym for female-dominant prostitution. Many online portals advertise so-called ‘tantra goddess worship services’ wherein men who enjoy being dominated sexually by a woman can pay for the privilege. Nothing could be further from what true worship of the tantric goddess truly is.

In tantra, the woman is genuinely seen as a goddess in all respects. She is the wellspring of creation and procreation, and the tantra goddess ‘puja’ (or worship) is both a series of rituals as well as an all-encompassing attitude on the part of the male. The male acknowledges that the sensual energies within the woman have been vested upon her by the Universe, and that it is from her that human life springs. The woman is therefore worshipped and her sacred sexual energy is given its rightful honour.

As the woman evolves in her male partner’s eyes from being a mere sexual object to the tantra goddess incarnate, a wonderful transformation takes place in their relationship. Mere intimacy becomes tantric love, and the cosmic dance between the tantric goddess and her worshipful consort commences. The male rises above his base physical desires and loses himself in his woman’s sacred incarnation. When sex does take place, it is nothing less than the celestial unification of the tantra god and tantra goddess. The relationship becomes holy in the eyes of the Universe, and is finally complete in all respects.

As the couple learn more about this wondrous new incarnation of their love from their tantra teacher, they become increasingly introspective and discover their innate spiritual potential. Love and intimacy become less self-seeking and more partner-focused. True communication begins, and the woman perceives – often for the first time in what may have been years of togetherness with the same man – that she is cherished and valued.

To learn about the transforming power of tantric goddess worship, it is essential that the partners seek the guidance of a gifted tantra master. Only in the context of expertly guided tantra for couples instructions can true sacred intimacy take place.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit histantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

How To Control The Male Orgasm With Tantra Techniques

Among the most sought-after tantra sex secrets are tantra techniques to help men to control ejaculation and handle problems with their erections. An experienced tantra teacher will be able to address these concerns among his male pupils in the course of his tantra lessons. It is important for the tantra master to reassure these men that they are not the only ones who are facing these problems. And yes, tantra does have tried and tested ways to control ejaculation and maintain an erection.

It is a recurring problem – many men are unable to satisfy their partners sexually. Part of the problem is that while women attain their sexual prime at around age 40, men’s sexual prowess tends to be on the descendant by that age. The key is knowledge. When your tantra teacher instructs you in what the male orgasm really is all about, a lot of the stress about inferior sexual performance dissipates significantly. You can begin to learn how to tackle the problem. Let us talk about ejaculation control.

The sexual climax in both men and women involves an increasing process of muscular tension. Specifically in men, the muscles of the lower back, abdomen and thighs begin to tense up as they reach the point of orgasm. The urgency conveyed by the progressive tensing of these muscles is conveyed to the brain. As any tantra master worth his salt will tell you, the brain is the primary sexual organ, for all desire and performance impulses originate from there.

Therefore, the first and foremost tantra secret of controlling ejaculation is to relax the body and mind during the sexual act. This can be achieved by consciously and wilfully releasing the tension in these muscle groups and engaging in regulated tantra breathing. As the orgasmic peak approaches, the release of tension from the body and therefore the mind will help in delaying the orgasm. It takes extensive practice of tantra meditation techniques to master this process. However, once mastered, it becomes second nature and the man can control his ejaculation effortlessly and instinctively.

As the concept of tantra sex as an act of loving worship becomes clearer in the mind of the pupil, the tantra teacher is also able to introduce other techniques. For instance, interrupting the urgency to climax by intoning certain chants (tantra mantras) together with your partner is a very effective method. Your tantra master will teach you specific tantra mantras that soothe and balance the flow of your sexual energies. This balance goes a long way in prolonging the sexual ecstasy for both partners.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

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