The Promises Of Tantra For Women

Which woman has not dreamed of her man worshiping her like a tantra goddess? Does a woman exist who has never imagined what it would feel like to be massaged from head to heel, be made love to reverently and passionately, and then sharing a mind-blowing orgasm with her partner?

This is what tantra sex promises every woman. Tantra for women is a section of ancient Hindu tantra that focuses squarely on the pleasure prerogative of the female. Among other things, the tantra techniques involved in tantra for women are designed to prolong passion play so that they can finally achieve ultimate sexual satisfaction.

With the instructions of an experienced tantra teacher, a couple can learn to heighten their sexual response to each other, gradually build up their arousal levels and keep them from spilling into climax for very long periods. They become adept at keeping their focus on the erotic journey of tantra play, rather than on achieving orgasm as quickly as possible. Only when such tantra techniques are practiced does it become possible for the woman to feel like and respond as a tantra goddess.

The physical and emotional bond that results as a result of these tantric practices is almost surreal. It is impossible for an uninitiated woman to imagine the kind of pleasure she can experience when she is not merely made love to but sexually worshiped as a tantric goddess. At the same time, she becomes a masterful seductress who can arouse her man with a simple glance or gesture. This is the erotic nirvana that awaits a woman who learns the tantric arts with her partner.

An experienced tantra master will know just how much fine-tuning a couple requires. This is an important skill, because not every couple is suited for the long sexual marathons that can result in the process of learning tantra. Many of the ancient tantric techniques can be modified to suit modern-day temperaments and schedules. Nevertheless, the magic of tantra sex remains intact. For most couples today, an hour of passionate, worshipful foreplay and tantra games usually suffices.

Very few men truly understand what women want in bed. In the course of his tantric instructions, a man learns just how different female sexuality is from its male counterpart. The sexual worship of the tantra goddess is, in fact, a process of humble relearning for him. He needs to master his own impatience and understand how to treat his woman in bed, he becomes a true student of tantra. The woman, in turn, learns how to rein in the unharnessed sexual drive of the male and make him a participant in sacred sexuality.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Your Woman – The Tantra Goddess

Woman is the central pivot of tantra sex, because she embodies the sacred goddess from which everything is born. The spiritual concept of the sacred feminine can be seen in almost all cultures of the world. The major religions of the world as well as most so-called pagan worship systems recognize the essential tantra goddess model.

Tantra ascribes great importance to the tantra goddess because it acknowledges that it is woman who beckons the seed from man. In truth, it is she who creates by fertilizing what she has called forth from man by the power of her allure. The tantra goddess symbolizes creation, fertility and beauty, and every woman is born as one.

This fact does not absolve her from the responsibility of evoking from the man the required sexual response. In fact, she must learn to do so under the tutelage of a genuine tantra teacher. The tantra goddess in a woman must learn of the process and intricacies of tantric sex. After all, it is she who must coax the orgasmic response form her male partner in order to be fruitful. This is how Mother Nature herself has designed it. It cannot be otherwise.

Once the woman has gained sufficient knowledge about her all-important role from her tantra master, she is ready to be fruitful and blissful with her male partner. At the same time, the man must receive the required tantra instructions to be able to meet his tantra goddess on the holy ground of tantric sexual union. The role of the tantra master is therefore inalienable and intrinsic.

It must be remembered that tantra sex is not something that comes naturally to us. Without tantra instructions, sexual union cannot be more than base animal coupling. Our sexual natures are driven by primitive, unformed instincts – much like those of beasts. We are capable of spiritual evolution, but this does not come without discipline and guidance.

Under the guidance of an accomplished tantra teacher, divine sexuality comes into full bloom and the worship begins. The man, fully instructed in how to arouse and stimulate his woman, is ready to approach the sexual act with respect and reverence. The woman, in turn, is fully awakened to her unique and God-given stature of tantra goddess. She is able to evoke the ultimate sexual potential from her man, and to receive his act of worship in the correct spirit.

What is required of her is a willingness to give in abundance of herself, as befits a goddess. She holds nothing back, for her man has also abandoned himself to adoring her as a divine creature. The combined power of the tantra knowledge given to them by their tantra master sets their bodies and souls ablaze with unfathomable passion. This passion is what feeds everything that ever was and ever will be creative in Nature.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Awakening The Tantra Goddess In Your Woman

As a male, your study of tantra will inevitably zero in on finding and worshipping the tantra goddess. In this quest, you are advised to steer clear of the many online campaigns purveying the services of a professional ‘tantra goddess’. These are efforts to entice you into thinly disguised prostitution.

Your existing female partner is your tantra goddess – you have simply not seen here in that light as yet. In order to do so, you must awaken her divinity by your acts of tantra rituals and worship. How do you do that? There is no substitute for the detailed guidance of a tantra teacher, but there are certain tantra techniques you can follow to get started.

To begin with, stop making love to her merely to gratify your ego or to achieve sexual release. Though you may be a true-blue and considerate lover to her, you will tend to get embroiled in a single objective with such an approach – that of giving her an orgasm and achieving it yourself. This is not worship – in fact, you are putting her in a position where she feels as pressured to perform as you do.

One of the hallmarks of the feminine gender is its receptivity. It is the nature of women to be receptive, and in tantra sex the male must emulate this quality in himself. This will vastly enhance the texture and quality of an intimate relationship and multiply the pleasure of sexual union. Your woman, now your tantra goddess incarnate – must feel that you have opened your masculine energy field to her. You do this by surrendering to her feminine energy, becoming receptive to receiving pleasure and giving up the focus on ‘performance’.

Here is a basic tantra technique to launch you on your journey of worshipping the sacred divine in your woman.

Lie together with her, in physical contact but with room enough between you to enable eye contact. Observe her breath and match yours to it, and with each breath release all and any thoughts other than those pertaining to this present, sacred moment. She is your tantric goddess, and you are here to worship her.

Maintain eye contact with her. As your tantra teacher will have taught you, the eyes are indeed the windows to the soul. Read her thoughts, feelings and desires in her eyes. The slowly, languidly, worshipfully begin to make love to her. Avoid using sex positions that would disrupt eye contact at first. The missionary position is ideal for your first foray into the sacred world of tantric goddess worship.

Cease all activity when you feel yourself reaching orgasm. Maintain eye contact and continue to convey your love, respect and desire to please her in this fashion. Stay immobile for around five minutes before you begin again. In the meantime, focus on the sensations you are experiencing and also giving her.

As you continue to make love, whisper to her your love for her. Observe her closely as she reaches orgasm, and build up your thrusts accordingly. Remember that your goal in this tantra ritual is not to achieve orgasm but to convey, build and celebrate your intimacy with her. When you both climax, it will be a spiritual explosion of sensuality and intimacy – not merely a physical release.

Remember that this is just the beginning. You will need deeper instructions from a qualified tantra master to reach the next stages of tantric sexual intimacy.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.