Tantra Practice And Sexual Fantasies

As you progress in your tantra practices under your tantra teacher, you may find yourself being beset by explicit sexual fantasies. These fantasies may not necessarily involve your chosen sex partner, and may therefore give rise to guilt and confusion. Didn’t you set out to learn tantra so that your sexual relationship with this partner improves? Why, then, do you find yourself fantasizing about other women or men?

This is often one of the first things to happen when tantra practices awaken your dormant tantra energy. Your repressed sexual desires float to the top and become visible. This is a good thing, because it is still tantra energy being manifested. Discuss these sexual fantasies with your tantra master, and you will learn that you are in fact making progress. Sexual repression is an anathema in the tantra way of life, and these fantasies must be recognized for what they are.

Your oldest fantasies lie in the time that your sexuality first awakened. This is usually around the time of puberty, when many things seem strange and sordid. You may have had sexual fantasies about a close relative or friend of the family, and buried these deep because of shame. Even after you got into a steady or committed relationship, you would doubtlessly have entertained sexual desires for women or men other than your chosen partner.

Since these desires remained firmly in the fantasy world and were never put into action, they are a form of unrequited or unreleased sexual energy. Tantra practice under a knowledgeable tantra teacher released you from the bondage of sexual repression, and these encoded memories begin to reawaken. You must acknowledge and confront them, for they are a part of your sexual being. As you practice tantra techniques, your sexuality begins to align more maturely with the realities of the here and now.

Do not seek to repress these memories further. Uncover and release them by the means of ‘hasta-maithuna’ (auto-eroticism) and find release in this manner. Banish all fears that you are somehow being ‘unfaithful’ to your sexual partner, or that you are in danger of unfaithfulness. Every human being goes through various stages of sexual evolution, and these memories hardwired into your mind are part of yours.

Continued practice of the tantra techniques prescribed to you by your tantric master will cause these fantasies to loosen their hold on you. Even while they affect you, you will learn to use them to increase the bliss in your on-going relationship with your partner. If you are in a tantra for couples course and your partner has progressed along with you, by all means share these fantasies with him or her. You will find that there is nothing to be ashamed of, and everything to be gained by harnessing every aspect of your tantra energy.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

How To Find A Genuine Tantra Teacher

If you are looking for individual tantra sessions or tantra for couples instruction, you will already have done some research on available practitioners. There is certainly no dearth of so-called tantra teachers who promise to take your sex life to the orgasmic stratosphere. How do you find the right one for you in the pack? This is not as simple as it may sound. However, here are some tips on choosing a tantra teacher who is genuine and authentic.

• Beware of tantra masters who only make promises of increasing your sexual abilities and satisfaction. These so-called tantra experts know how to entice customers who only relate tantra to sex.

Though sex is an important aspect and focus of the ancient tantra scriptures, the path to tantra sex is through specific spiritual practices. Tantra is not a form of spiritual Viagra – it is a spiritual way of life. Unless a tantra master is capable of bringing his students onto this path, he cannot offer anything of value. For an amusing caricature of such fraudulent ‘tantra experts’, the film ‘The Guru’ is highly recommended.

• Ask the tantra teacher about where he obtained his knowledge from. Authentic tantra knowledge comes only from an unbroken line of tantra practitioners.

The secrets of sacred sexuality have not been handed out wholesale across the globe. Tantra is an ancient Indian science and its roots lie in Indian scriptures. As the unfortunate trend of ‘pop tantra’ spread across the world, various Western institutes began to offer tantric courses. These courses usually have nothing to do with the original Indian scriptures. Check on the tantric master’s certification, and also on how long he has been practicing.

• Establish whether the approach comes across as genuine. Do not discount your gut feelings about a tantric master, even if you have no prior knowledge on the subject.

You must be comfortable with the tantra teacher’s offerings, and they must meet your own objectives. If you are a genuine seeker of tantra knowledge, you will want to be introduced to its deeper spiritual secrets. You will know that there are no short-cuts to this knowledge, and will wish to be instructed in a scientific and logical manner. If you feel that the teacher is only trying to give you what the more superficial thrill-seekers want, he is not for you. Also establish whether he offers individual sessions or also tantra for couples sessions.

• Get a referral from a close friend. There is no better yardstick than a satisfied client.

You may have a friend or acquaintance who has already received tantra instructions from a tantric expert. If this person is satisfied with the instructions, there is no reason why you would not be satisfied as well. Find out what other tantric masters he or she approached before making a decision. This will help you eliminate quite a lot of the available options.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Online Tantra Workshops – Spiritual Sex Secrets For the 21st Century

Has your love life lost its effervescence? Has sex between you and your partner become routine, repetitive and boring? If so, you may have tried many of the so-called  ‘heal your relationship’ methods that are being advertised so much these days – without success. And all this time, the ancient art of tantra – its secrets given to mankind more than 10,000 years ago – was at your disposal. Truly, sometimes we just don’t see the forest for the trees.

Over the centuries, the use of tantra practices under the guidance of an experienced tantra teacher has rejuvenated innumerable relationships. Couples from all walks of life, across the world and regardless of religious other belief systems, have benefited immensely from learning and practicing  this ancient art of spiritual love and sex.

A tantra master who has received the secrets of this time-tested spiritual system of emotional and sexual renewal can help you and your partner rekindle the lost passion in your relationship. By learning tantra techniques that are geared towards enhancing their spiritual awareness as well as sexual skills, couples have the means to establish levels of emotional closeness, intimacy and sexual intensity that they cannot attain by any other means.

India, the country in which tantra originated and reached its fullest potential, continues to be the font from which all genuine tantra magic flows. Here, the ancient scriptures that are the basis of all tantra instructions were passed down generations of traditional tantra teachers to preserve the sanctity and purity of their wisdom. Thanks to the digital communication highway, it is now possible for a genuine Indian tantra master to conduct couples tantra workshops for students across the world.

In fact, online tantra workshops have proved to be the most effective way for an authentic Indian tantra master to pass on the mystical secrets of tantra to couples anywhere in the world. Here, finally, is a way for lovers to discover their fullest potential as spiritual and sexual beings in the safety and comfort of their own homes. In the course of an online tantra workshop, a couple can learn and practice the true art of communication and spiritual bonding, and of skilfully giving and receiving sexual pleasure without inhibitions.

Via an online tantra workshop for couples, the tantra teacher can heal their sexual wounds of the past, channel their flow of sexual energy and finally deepen their sexual, emotional and spiritual connection. In short, participating in an online tantra workshop can permanently transform a couple’s relationship – without them even leaving their home. The art of tantra – the ancient mystical science of love and life – has thereby joined hands with modern technology to cross the barriers of time and space, ushering the secrets of spiritual sex and sexuality into the 21^st Century.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.