Tantra Practice And Sexual Fantasies

As you progress in your tantra practices under your tantra teacher, you may find yourself being beset by explicit sexual fantasies. These fantasies may not necessarily involve your chosen sex partner, and may therefore give rise to guilt and confusion. Didn’t you set out to learn tantra so that your sexual relationship with this partner improves? Why, then, do you find yourself fantasizing about other women or men?

This is often one of the first things to happen when tantra practices awaken your dormant tantra energy. Your repressed sexual desires float to the top and become visible. This is a good thing, because it is still tantra energy being manifested. Discuss these sexual fantasies with your tantra master, and you will learn that you are in fact making progress. Sexual repression is an anathema in the tantra way of life, and these fantasies must be recognized for what they are.

Your oldest fantasies lie in the time that your sexuality first awakened. This is usually around the time of puberty, when many things seem strange and sordid. You may have had sexual fantasies about a close relative or friend of the family, and buried these deep because of shame. Even after you got into a steady or committed relationship, you would doubtlessly have entertained sexual desires for women or men other than your chosen partner.

Since these desires remained firmly in the fantasy world and were never put into action, they are a form of unrequited or unreleased sexual energy. Tantra practice under a knowledgeable tantra teacher released you from the bondage of sexual repression, and these encoded memories begin to reawaken. You must acknowledge and confront them, for they are a part of your sexual being. As you practice tantra techniques, your sexuality begins to align more maturely with the realities of the here and now.

Do not seek to repress these memories further. Uncover and release them by the means of ‘hasta-maithuna’ (auto-eroticism) and find release in this manner. Banish all fears that you are somehow being ‘unfaithful’ to your sexual partner, or that you are in danger of unfaithfulness. Every human being goes through various stages of sexual evolution, and these memories hardwired into your mind are part of yours.

Continued practice of the tantra techniques prescribed to you by your tantric master will cause these fantasies to loosen their hold on you. Even while they affect you, you will learn to use them to increase the bliss in your on-going relationship with your partner. If you are in a tantra for couples course and your partner has progressed along with you, by all means share these fantasies with him or her. You will find that there is nothing to be ashamed of, and everything to be gained by harnessing every aspect of your tantra energy.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

How To Find A Genuine Tantra Teacher

If you are looking for individual tantra sessions or tantra for couples instruction, you will already have done some research on available practitioners. There is certainly no dearth of so-called tantra teachers who promise to take your sex life to the orgasmic stratosphere. How do you find the right one for you in the pack? This is not as simple as it may sound. However, here are some tips on choosing a tantra teacher who is genuine and authentic.

• Beware of tantra masters who only make promises of increasing your sexual abilities and satisfaction. These so-called tantra experts know how to entice customers who only relate tantra to sex.

Though sex is an important aspect and focus of the ancient tantra scriptures, the path to tantra sex is through specific spiritual practices. Tantra is not a form of spiritual Viagra – it is a spiritual way of life. Unless a tantra master is capable of bringing his students onto this path, he cannot offer anything of value. For an amusing caricature of such fraudulent ‘tantra experts’, the film ‘The Guru’ is highly recommended.

• Ask the tantra teacher about where he obtained his knowledge from. Authentic tantra knowledge comes only from an unbroken line of tantra practitioners.

The secrets of sacred sexuality have not been handed out wholesale across the globe. Tantra is an ancient Indian science and its roots lie in Indian scriptures. As the unfortunate trend of ‘pop tantra’ spread across the world, various Western institutes began to offer tantric courses. These courses usually have nothing to do with the original Indian scriptures. Check on the tantric master’s certification, and also on how long he has been practicing.

• Establish whether the approach comes across as genuine. Do not discount your gut feelings about a tantric master, even if you have no prior knowledge on the subject.

You must be comfortable with the tantra teacher’s offerings, and they must meet your own objectives. If you are a genuine seeker of tantra knowledge, you will want to be introduced to its deeper spiritual secrets. You will know that there are no short-cuts to this knowledge, and will wish to be instructed in a scientific and logical manner. If you feel that the teacher is only trying to give you what the more superficial thrill-seekers want, he is not for you. Also establish whether he offers individual sessions or also tantra for couples sessions.

• Get a referral from a close friend. There is no better yardstick than a satisfied client.

You may have a friend or acquaintance who has already received tantra instructions from a tantric expert. If this person is satisfied with the instructions, there is no reason why you would not be satisfied as well. Find out what other tantric masters he or she approached before making a decision. This will help you eliminate quite a lot of the available options.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Tantra Online Courses – Learning Tantra On The Internet

A tantra online course is a perfectly valid means of learning tantra, provided that you opt for the right tantra teacher. If both the tantra master and the tantra online course material are of professional grade, you can benefit a lot from step by step instructions. In fact, thousands of tantra students are currently attaining higher relationship benchmarks via online tantra consulting and personal tantra sessions.

Tantra for couples via the online route helps in learning the basic spiritual concepts of this ancient art of love and life. This science originated in India thousands of years ago and proceeded to take the world by storm. However, geographical limitations prevented the word from spreading quicker. Its ancient teachings can only be passed on from one tantra master to the other, and these exponents could not disseminate their knowledge beyond their immediate sphere of influence.

All this changed with the advent of the Internet. A qualified tantra teacher can now pass on extremely focused instructions to couples all over the world. Today, thanks to the online route, couples can learn how to enhance their emotional and physical connections with each other without leaving their homes. It is the ultimate convenience option for busy people who nevertheless seek to inject new life into their relationships.

Once you have reached a sufficiently advanced stage in your tantra online course, you will be able to tap into your inherent tantra power. Your tantra teacher will instruct you in communicating by touch and develop a highly tuned, well-balanced sexual equation with your partner. This will make a magical difference in your life together as a couple and take your emotional, spiritual and physical bond to new levels of awareness and bliss.

Yes, all this is possible over the Internet now. Your ongoing training will encompass video sessions, VOIP-based instructions and emailed tantra course material. In other words, you can create a sacred temple of love and intimacy within the safe confines of your own home, practice tantra techniques and rituals and completely transform your life as a couple. Your tantra master will guide you every step of the way and help you steadily achieve higher levels of tantra awareness and proficiency.

Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level with this ancient science of intimacy? Then you should seriously consider opting for the online route of learning these ancient and sacred teachings. With a gifted and experienced tantra teacher to guide you through specially customized lessons, your love life will take off like never before.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.