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Archive for March, 2012

Aligning Your Chakras – Tips for Tantra Breathing

Tantra breathing plays a pivotal role in good tantra sex, but it must obviously be practiced before it is used in that context. An ideal time to practice tantra breathing is while engaging in tantric meditation under the guidance of your tantra teacher. In the context of the tantric sciences, sex and meditation have a lot in common. Both activities require a certain degree of focus and discipline, and both require a stillness of mind and temperament in order to be successfully practiced.

breath Aligning Your Chakras   Tips for Tantra Breathing

Tantric breathing is a refined form of the ancient yogic practice of pranayama. Pranayama is basically the science of harnessing the power of breath and the powerful influence that breath has over the state of the mind. Tantra breathing should initially be practiced only under the guidance of an experienced tantric master. If you have already received basic instructions, you may proceed on your own.

In order to get ready for a session of tantra breathing, sit comfortably in a cross-legged posture. If you are still not comfortable with this basic yoga posture, sit against a wall for back support.

With your eyes and mouth closed, inhale and exhale slowly and deeply through the nose. Rather than expanding your chest during inhalation, feel the breath flow past your lungs and into the pit of your stomach. Tantra breathing has nothing in common with the Western concepts of deep breathing. Rather, it is based on the concepts of Qui Gong and Tai Chi, in which breathing techniques exercise the diaphragm.

It is a physical fact that it is only when the diaphragm is expanded sufficiently that the lungs can fill to comfortable capacity. The best way of achieving this is to picture your breath flowing through your lungs, but passing beyond them into the belly.

Do not force your breath, but ensure that it is deep and measured. There should be no discomfort involved, or else your focus will be broken and the benefits of this breathing technique lost. Picture each inhalation flowing through your chakras and irrigating them with life-giving oxygen.

After about a minute, when your breath has steadied into a comfortable rhythm, begin to clear your mind of all extraneous thoughts and impulses. This is not an easy exercise, and will take much practice to master. However, it becomes easier when you picture each measured exhalation carrying out of your mind and body a disturbing, disruptive thought.

With each subsequent inhalation, picture the space left by the unwanted thought being filled by blissful nothingness. You will soon find your over-busy mind calming down as the disruptive thoughts are flushed out. Imagine the tantric breathing cycle thus becoming a process of thought-purification – a form of mental and spiritual detoxification.

As you grow more and more proficient in this technique, your tantra teacher will instruct you in how to use the bundled power of tantric breath to sharp-focus on a certain task or function – be it sex or any other activity requiring unwavering concentration.

Only when you have become a master of your breath do you begin to achieve mastery over your emotions. Devotion is an emotion, and masterful devotion is what tantra worship is all about. When you have become adept at tantric breathing, your worship of your tantra goddess or tantric god reaps mind-boggling results. You will be able to achieve and transmit the full ecstasy of spiritual sex. You become a devotee engaged in worship of the tantra deity in your life.

May the power of tantra begin to flow in your life…

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

 

Following The Path Of Tantra Sadhana

When most people think of tantra, they usually imagine that it is all about advanced sex. While sex is certainly a component of the tantric science, there is a lot more to it than that. Let me tell you what tantra sadhana involves.

tantra meditation Following The Path Of Tantra Sadhana

Sadhana is a term that describes a spiritual path which has a specific objective or goal. A sadhu or sadhika is a man or woman pursuing a spiritual path that leads to a higher degree of spiritual realization. Since tantra is such a spiritual path, one who pursues it can expect to encounter enlightenment and liberation from earthly constraints of mind and body.

Tantra sadhana is therefore a spiritual pursuit in the classic sense of the tradition of ‘Bhakti’. Sexual techniques are certainly involved, but only in the context of liberation from physical and spiritual repression. Overcoming these repressions plays a big role in tantra sadhana so that complete self-realization becomes possible.

A person embarked on the path of tantra sadhana under an acknowledged tantra teacher practices specific meditation techniques, learns and recites prescribed tantra mantras (chants) and engages in tantra deity worship (puja). In the tantric arts, the quintessential deities are the tantra goddess Shakti and the traditional tantric god Shiva. The power, love and passion that these two deities embody are the basis of all tantric practices.

Learning tantra under a gifted tantra master is therefore not a trivial pursuit of sexual thrills, but involves understanding a whole philosophy, science and life path. Ancient tantra was conceived by Indian sadhus who studied humans and how they fit into both Nature and the cosmic scheme of things. The techniques they formulated are geared towards helping men and women to get body, mind and soul in perfect synch with Nature and the cosmos.

A student of tantra can be said to be on the path of tantra sadhana when he or she begins to practice the various rituals and techniques prescribed by their tantra master. This is the spirit of bhakti and sadhana, which requires the relinquishing of the ego and an attitude of worship in order to achieve spiritual awakening. In tantra, this worshipful attitude manifests in tantra puja, which is a system of ritualistic worship of the deities.

In tantra for couples sessions, the students gain a better understanding of the tantric deities Shiva and Shakti. As the couple progresses in their instructions under their tantra teacher, these deities themselves become the subjects and objects of intimacy – including sexual intimacy. Only when the couple reaches this level of awareness does tantric sex begin to have real meaning.

In short, the glories and joys of tantric sex are a gift that those who are on the path of tantra sadhana. This gift does not come apart from tantra sadhana. This is why this ancient science of life and love must essentially be learned under the expert tutelage of an experienced tantra teacher, or guru.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

How Tantra Helps Achieve Multiple Orgasms

It is easy to assume that tantra helps us achieve multiple orgasms because of specific tantric techniques that boost our libido and performance. However, to fully understand how tantra delivers this Holy Grail of sexual pleasure, one must understand how tantra really works. Apart from its effects on the physical level, there are also deep psychological factors involved.

orgasm How Tantra Helps Achieve Multiple Orgasms

One of the first things that a tantra teacher focuses on in a tantra for couples setting is the building up of trust between the partners. How does this tie in with multiple orgasms? Very simply put, it is the lack of trust in ourselves and each other that prevents us from opening ourselves completely enough to experience it. Orgasm is definitely the very pinnacle of sexual pleasure, but it is also at this point that the human being is at his or her most vulnerable.

It is next to impossible to respond to any kind of threat while one is in the throes of sexual climax. Most protective reflexes shut down completely at this point. The mind, which is our primary defense system and tool, is unwaveringly focused on the pleasure it perceives. In order to fully understand this state of vulnerability, I would like to draw a parallel.

Imagine that India’s enemies were to launch a tactical offensive against the capital at the very point when Sachin Tendulkar is scoring the decisive run in his latest century. Arguably, the nation is at its weakest at such a point, since almost every Indian’s attention is focused on what is happening on that particular cricket field. An offensive launched at such a time would have extremely serious consequences.

What has this got to do with trust? Well, India has no option but to trust its enemies at this point. It has to trust them not to attack when the nation is at its weakest. For the record, I would like to say that this trust is not exactly realistic. However, the nation would not be able to fully celebrate Sachin’s latest feat if it were looking over its shoulders, fearing an attack.

In the same way, it is impossible to fully enjoy sexual intimacy without complete trust in one’s partner. At the moment of orgasm, all our defenses are down. We are fully open to the other. It takes trust to be able to experience even a single orgasm – and it takes trust of spiritual proportions in order to experience a series of climaxes.

This is the kind of trust that a tantra master will work at bringing about between partners during tantra for couples instructions. Without it, all his teachings will prove fruitless. Intimate partners must be willing to trust each other completely; and to achieve this, they must lower their masks and allow the walls that separate them to come down, as well. They must face each other in all their nakedness, both in a physical and psychological sense.

There can be no defenses in tantra. There can only be trust. Only when this trust is established do multiple orgasms become possible.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

 

 

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