Are you plagued by sexual guilt? Have your dark sexual fantasies ever made you wonder if you’re normal or perhaps perverted? You’re not alone.
We all have our dark side, and ancient tantra teaches us that the less conscious we are of it, the denser and more veiled that dark side becomes. The good news is that our darkest sexual desires can become instructive and meaningful if we summon them into the light of consciousness. When the light of tantra consciousness shines, even the seemingly profane can be transformed into something sacred.
Ancient tantra teaches us that whatever we give value to and empower with intention and purpose can become sacred and beautiful. This includes our dark sexual desires. If they remain unacknowledged and unexamined, they seem to us as evil and we fear them. As a result, we become dysfunctional in our relationships and in our sex lives. An experienced tantra master can teach you to accept and embrace these dark desires, and to put them to use in your quest for authenticity.
Under expert tutelage, countless students of tantra all over the world have learned to embrace their shadowed sexual desires and to integrate them healthily into their lives. In the course of his instructions, a good tantra teacher puts an end to the repression of dark sexual fantasies and yearnings. He will help you to accept your sexuality completely, including its dark manifestations. You will no longer feel any need for denial, shame, self-disgust or self doubt.
Remember that repressed, unexpressed and un-transformed sexual fantasies can lead to problems with anger, violence, manipulation and sexual deviancy. Also remember that the more we deny the existence of something in our lives, the more it controls us. Tantra is a spiritual path of enlightenment and self acceptance, and it offers those who suffer from sexual guilt, fear and confusion a path of hope and holistic healing.
In helping you to accept the dark side of our sexual nature, your tantra master relieves you of the negative power it holds over you. Your sexuality will no longer be a mystery to you, and you will no longer need to deny it. As a result, you will find many negative aspects of your life gradually changing for the better. You will finally understand and accept your sexual nature. With this understanding and acceptance comes to power of choice over the way in which you express it.
Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.
It is not possible to travel the path of ancient tantra without a guide and road-map. This is because learning tantra is an incredibly complex spiritual journey that requires you to make a connection between the physical and spiritual planes. It is possible to find rudimentary maps for traversing some of the physical plane. However, the spiritual plane eludes all those who seek to reach it without a spiritual guide. This is where the guidance of an experienced tantra teacher becomes indispensable.
A crude physical road-map will not teach you the ways of tantra. Even if it has been written by an expert tantra teacher, remember that he is familiar with the road, the landmarks and the general topography. The fresh student of tantra knows none of these, and is further burdened by false knowledge and impressions. A tantra master does not only teach his students the truths of tantra. He also helps them ‘unlearn’ the myths and lies that will prove to be pitfalls and stumbling blocks on the spiritual tantra journey.
You may have bought some books on basic tantra techniques, thinking they will serve as road maps. The fact is, most of us get stuck on a journey even if we have a map. At such a point, we need to be able to ask someone for directions. However, without a tantra master to guide you, you will not even know what questions to ask. If you proceed on this journey without expert guidance, you will never reach your goal. Moreover, you will have wasted precious time and life force on a futile pursuit. When you choose to learn tantra with a qualified tantra master, you humbly surrender your ignorance on the altar of true knowledge.
How do you know that you have found the right tantra teacher? How can you establish that he is the right guide for you?
- A true tantra teacher accepts you as you are, understands your problems and objectives and charts out your personal journey for you
- He is able to communicate the most profound spiritual truths in simple, comprehensible terms
- He remains patient, compassionate and supportive at all times, for he knows that the attainment of genuine tantra knowledge is not easy
- He does not judge his students – he takes them from where they are to where they need to be
- He ensures that the student of tantra reaches his goals in stages, all the while reaping the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual benefits of this ancient science
Is tantra a purely spiritual path? Not at all. We all exist on the physical plane, and we will continue to exist there till we die. We all must experience physical pleasure and learn to tackle physical pain to live life to the fullest. Tantra is not merely a spiritual path – it is a path that adds a spiritual dimension to the physical plane. An experienced tantra master can teach you to attain spiritual mastery over the physical plane.
Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.
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Tantric Technique by Subhojit Dasgupta on March 15th, 2011 8:20 am
Among the most sought-after tantra sex secrets are tantra techniques to help men to control ejaculation and handle problems with their erections. An experienced tantra teacher will be able to address these concerns among his male pupils in the course of his tantra lessons. It is important for the tantra master to reassure these men that they are not the only ones who are facing these problems. And yes, tantra does have tried and tested ways to control ejaculation and maintain an erection.
It is a recurring problem – many men are unable to satisfy their partners sexually. Part of the problem is that while women attain their sexual prime at around age 40, men’s sexual prowess tends to be on the descendant by that age. The key is knowledge. When your tantra teacher instructs you in what the male orgasm really is all about, a lot of the stress about inferior sexual performance dissipates significantly. You can begin to learn how to tackle the problem. Let us talk about ejaculation control.
The sexual climax in both men and women involves an increasing process of muscular tension. Specifically in men, the muscles of the lower back, abdomen and thighs begin to tense up as they reach the point of orgasm. The urgency conveyed by the progressive tensing of these muscles is conveyed to the brain. As any tantra master worth his salt will tell you, the brain is the primary sexual organ, for all desire and performance impulses originate from there.
Therefore, the first and foremost tantra secret of controlling ejaculation is to relax the body and mind during the sexual act. This can be achieved by consciously and wilfully releasing the tension in these muscle groups and engaging in regulated tantra breathing. As the orgasmic peak approaches, the release of tension from the body and therefore the mind will help in delaying the orgasm. It takes extensive practice of tantra meditation techniques to master this process. However, once mastered, it becomes second nature and the man can control his ejaculation effortlessly and instinctively.
As the concept of tantra sex as an act of loving worship becomes clearer in the mind of the pupil, the tantra teacher is also able to introduce other techniques. For instance, interrupting the urgency to climax by intoning certain chants (tantra mantras) together with your partner is a very effective method. Your tantra master will teach you specific tantra mantras that soothe and balance the flow of your sexual energies. This balance goes a long way in prolonging the sexual ecstasy for both partners.
Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.
