Tantra Sex – Controlling The Male Orgasm

Ancient tantra – the science of erotic love and its role in the human existence – holds the secrets of the ultimate sexual experience for both men and women. As a tantra teacher, one is often confronted with the primary insecurities that lead aspiring students to the tantra master in the first place. One of these is premature ejaculation.

The male partner’s experience with erotic sex can be completely hamstrung if he is afflicted by this syndrome. Understanding this predicament, the tantra master may introduce certain tantra techniques to control premature ejaculation early on in his instructions. It is a fact that it is possible for the male to significantly prolong and enhance his sexual experience with these tantra techniques, thus also increasing his partner’s enjoyment of the sexual act.

This is important, since a woman’s orgasm differs a lot from that of the male’s. If the male partner is subject to premature ejaculation, she will not be able to travel through the nine stages that the female orgasm basically consists of. If the male can control his climax long enough and continue making steady, focused, passionate love to his woman, he is in a position of giving her with the ultimate sexual gift – a full-blown tantra orgasm.

The secret of premature ejaculation control via specific tantra techniques is to control and redirect the sexual energy generated at the time of imminent orgasm. This takes time and practice, and the tantra master has to ensure at all times that this student maintains the necessary focus and self-discipline. It is not only about controlling a bodily function, after all – it is about controlling the mind that governs these bodily functions.

There are tantra techniques that help a man strengthen and control his pubococcygeus muscle, also known as the PC muscle. This muscle, which exists in both genders, basically controls the flow of urine, and also contracts sharply during orgasm. It is this muscle that turns rebel on a man who suffers from premature climaxing, by going into the orgasmic spasm far before it ideally should. You will know which muscle is in question here when you attempt to stop urinating in mid-flow. Under the expert guidance of a tantra teacher, the male can learn to exert physical and spiritual will on this muscle. It will become his servant, rather than his master.

Though women are not subject to the distress of premature ejaculation, they too can suffer from curtailed enjoyment of the sexual act because they lack control over this muscle. In a tantra for couples setting, the tantra teacher can help both partners achieve complete control by a combination of tantra breathing techniques and tantra yoga exercises. Once these techniques lessons have been absorbed and understood, they can be practiced anywhere and at any time.

The result is the end to premature ejaculation in the male, and the ability to reach full orgasmic potential for the female. The benefit? The formation of the ultimate physio-spiritual bond between the partners. When guided by an expert tantra master, this is just one of the many miracles that this ancient science of love and life can work in a relationship.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

How To Practice Effective Tantra Meditation

As an experienced tantra teacher will tell you, tantra meditation is not the same as yoga meditation. Though certain recent formats of yoga meditation do have aspects of tantra meditation within them, the fact is that these two disciplines derive from different philosophies that happen to have certain areas of overlap.

Tantra meditation involves the utterance of tantra mantras (or sacred chants), tantra breathing and reverend introspection and reflection. However, it does not, as a rule, require the practitioner to have sex. Rather, the intention is to find that space of utter non-thinking that is invariably attained during the final stages of the sexual act and ensuing orgasm. The mind is neither willing nor able to hold on to any thoughts at this decisive time of sexual ecstasy. Likewise, the objective of tantra meditation is to reach and maintain this state.

Tantra meditation can be practiced alone, or in an adequately guided tantra for couples meditation session. It is generally advisable to practice it in a group setting, since this allows for a greater build-up of synergistic tantra energy

Under the guidance of a qualified tantra master, the full power of tantra meditation is unleashed and set to work in the student. It opens up a direct channel for tantra energy to flow, thereby driving out all stress, worry and tension from the mind and body. As a result, the student can experience oneness with the cosmic forces that created, sustain and empower a life nourished by the ancient art of tantra.

Within each of us – specifically, in the region of the spine’s tail bone - lies a core of energy that waits to unfold and transform us. The idea behind tantra meditation is to allow this energy to ascend through the various centers of power and reach the crown chakra. It must be stressed here that this is primeval energy, which is in its unformed state. Though it is powerful, it can also do harm if allowed to flow without proper tutelage. In other words, tantra meditation should not be practiced without the supervision and instructions of an experienced tantra master. Under the right conditions, it can be a life-changing experience.

Your tantra master can teach you to harness and utilize the energy generated during such a meditation session to vastly improve your sex life, interpersonal relationships and ability to address the various stresses and challenges of modern life. Tantra practice is therefore incomplete without a good working acquaintance with the techniques involved in this powerful form of meditation.

Do not seek shortcuts to finding and using the power of tantra meditation – rather, allow your tantra teacher to guide you every step of the way – and witness yourself begin to overflow with power, confidence and an unbelievable joy of life and living…

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature. Visit his tantra online guide for Tantra Lessons, kriyas and mudras from this young Tantra Master.

Why You Should Learn Tantra

Why should you learn tantra from an experienced tantra master? What is so special about this ancient art of spiritual love that sets it apart from all other mystical sciences? Your reason may be nothing more than to be a better lover. If that is the case, a structured set of sessions with a qualified tantra master can help you achieve this goal to the fullest. After all, you will learn tantra techniques and practices that will utterly transform you as a lover – you will not only be a good, but an empathic and caring lover. Ask any woman who has ever yearned for more in bed, and she will tell you that this kind of lover is the highest ideal.

However, you are doubtlessly aware that tantra is not only about erotic sex – it is the art of love. An accomplished tantra teacher will instruct you in the ancient ways of opening yourself up to the ultimate experience of love. You will learn what ‘heart-felt’ love really is – and, through tantra practice, discover its spiritual power as well. Love was always meant to be a healing, fulfilling experience for mankind, but mankind no longer knows how to love in a spiritual way. This ability is what the ancient art of tantra can awaken in you.

Finally, your tantra master can guide you in making the ultimate connection – that of physical and spiritual love. You will discover how the awakening of your ability to love your partner in a spiritual, worshipful way will lead to the highest levels of physical pleasure. Whether you are a man or a woman, ancient tantra holds the key to bonding with your partner in the most perfect, holistic manner possible for human beings. Yes, a guided set of tantra lessons will open to you the portals of sacred sex.

However, these are not the only benefits of tantra instruction and practice. There are numerous intangible rewards to learning tantra under the tutelage of an expert tantra master. For instance, your immune system will get strengthened, you learn to breathe in the correct manner with tantra breathing, you will be constantly energized in all aspects of daily life, and you will become a calmer, more collected person via practice of tantra meditation.

Acharya Subhojit Dasgupta is a Tantra Teacher with an in-depth knowledge of traditional Indian sciences and Sanskrit literature.